Meet Jono
In February of 2024 I lost my father to suicide. He was 67 years old. Sadly, my father’s story is not unique. His story of depression with the all-too-common ending of suicide is the story of countless others in this country, and it’s about time we start talking about it.
Over the last several decades, America is averaging one suicide every eleven minutes…
Let that sink in for a second... one suicide every eleven minutes.
As a point of reference, suicide is currently the 9th leading cause of death in this country -- more people die by suicide than auto accidents every year.
And the total number of "Deaths of Despair" -- in addition to suicide, "Deaths of Despair" are those associated with depression and substance abuse like alcohol-related diseases and drug overdoses -- makes depression the 4th leading cause of death in this country. Only heart disease, cancer, and COVID-19 have killed more Americans over the past 5 years.
1/5 Americans has a mental illness -- that's only counting the reported cases. And I'm willing to bet that everyone reading this has either experienced a mental health issue personally (I have depression) or knows of someone who has. At most, each of us is just two degrees removed from someone suffering from a mental illness.
Now, it’s important to remember that depression is a disease, like anything else. And yet it is the only disease in which suicide is a common and even predictable outcome. Heart disease, cancer, diabetes, Alzheimer’s; no other disease results in suicide at the same rate as depression.
That’s because depression is a parasite of the mind. It feeds on its host and only grows in strength as the host weakens. And in many instances, this parasite grows and grows until it fulfills its goal of killing its host.
It’s no coincidence that when people end their lives using a gun, like my father did, they typically shoot themselves in the head - not the heart, or the gut, but the head. They are, in fact, shooting at the depression, they’re trying to kill the parasite.